Herpy new year!

Sasha offers advice to a guy who can’t believe he made as long as he did without contracting herpes and a reader in search of a sex coach.

In search of a sex surrogate

Is sex surrogacy a legit approach to therapy? This week, Sasha offers a guy looking to gain some experience some tips on finding the help he needs.

Change is possible

If 2012 showed us anything, it’s that rights can be won, but victories are often hard-fought.

Calling all gangbangers

This week, Sasha helps push a married couple to explore a long-dreamed of fantasy involving many men and one woman. Also, when not to touch the bang bang fruit.

Booboo Fet

Sasha weighs in on FetLife, the controversial online BDSM and fetish community.

Canadian gigolo

Sasha gives advice to a would-be male escort and a woman experimenting with a polyamorous lifestyle.


How far is too far when caning or whipping your partner’s feet? Sasha’s got some hot tips on bastinado.


When is a “semi-casual” relationship not so casual anymore? Around the time you stop being able to have an orgasm in front of the other person.

The wilderness inside

Sasha reflects on Amanda Todd’s suicide and how the Internet would have informed her own behaviour as a misguided teen.

Girl on t-girl action

Sasha offers advice on sex with — and sensitivity toward — a transgendered partner.